Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Biblical Counseling and Pelagianism

   Have you ever tried to mix water with oil? Everyone probably has at some point in their lives. Well, that is what it would be like to mix the Pelagian doctrines with Biblical Counseling.
  Here are some reasons why these two don't go together:
1. Pelgians do not believe in Original Sin. That means, they do not believe that we are all born with sinful hearts since Adam fell. Pelagians believe that human beings are like Adam was before he fell. They believe people have a choice of whether they want to sin or not.
2. Repentance is a matter of making a u-turn. It involves living totally for God, instead of living for yourself. In repentance, you let go of those things that are more important to you than God is. But Pelagians teach that repentance means to 'stop sinning'. Again, it goes back to #1, where Pelagians do not believe in Original Sin. You have the choice and the power to not sin anymore, according to them.
3. God's mercy and love are left out, as well as His grace and power to overcome sin. You will not hear the words 'grace', 'love', or 'mercy' from Pelagians when they teach. Neither do they recognize the power of God as the only enablement for us to live the Christian life.
4. Pelagians do not believe God is for you if you sin. Also, that would mean that if you struggle with sin, addictions, or are enslaved by a sin and want to be free, you would have to free yourself. It is your responsibility before God to become 'sin-free'.
   So, by looking at the differences between what the Bible actually says about God and His care for his children who struggle against sin, you can easily see why Pelagianism doesn't work with Biblical Counseling. I don't want to speak for those who are Pelagians, but, from what I can tell by looking at what they say they believe in, it comes down to legalism. Although I don't think they believe that good works atone for sin, they do believe that obeying God is part of the equation for our salvation experience.
  How does this tie in with Biblical Counseling? In Biblical Counseling, you work with people that are believers in Jesus Christ and are following Him, yet, they have struggles with their sinful natures, whether it be with addictions, mental illness, past abuse, the list could go on. You can't tell a person who has mental illness to just 'stop sinning' and expect them to be perfect. You can't tell anyone, for that matter, to 'stop sinning' and be perfect. By perfect, I am using this word to mean being without sin. The Bible uses this word to mean 'mature'.
  Another way Pelagian beliefs do not work with Biblical Counseling is that God's love is left out. The Bible says that 'God is love'. That is part of who He is. Counselees need to understand that God loves them and will help them. God wants to set people free from sin. That is why Jesus died for us. He died to take away the wrath of God, but there is so much more. Now, we have the power to break sin that held us back before. Sin no longer has to enslave us. But it is not as easy as telling a person to 'stop sinning' in order to be free from sin. We cannot 'stop sinning'. But God in us can cause us to have the power so that we don't have to sin anymore. It is part of the sanctification process, which, obviously, is not something Pelagians would believe in either.
   The Bible tells us to 'carry one another's burdens'. Galatians also tells us to 'restore' a brother who has fallen 'with gentleness'. The process of this happening takes time and patience. People aren't restored when you tell them they are bad. If you have children, you already know that when the child sins, it doesn't make much sense to tell them what they did was wrong and make them feel hopeless and stupid because of what they did. You go back to the heart and explain to them the why of what is was they did, and the reason it was wrong, and what can be done to restore it. You still love your child and are for him and will help him to not fall into that sin again.
   Pelagians are strong in telling people about God's wrath and judgment. They are experts in doing that.
So, these are some of the reasons why the teachings of Pelagianism go against the teachings of Biblical Counseling as based upon the Scriptures.

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Our Struggle With Sin and Condemnation

   A thought came to my mind this morning about our struggle with sin, and our receptiveness to condemnation. Two recent activities have helped me put this concept in a clearer light.
   There are a couple of understandings of sin and repentance in Christian circles today. There is a group which believes that when you repent and come to Christ, you are saved, but your repentance must involve not only turning away from sin, but actually, in this belief system, you must stop sinning or else your repentance isn't genuine. I have figured out now who this group of Christians is. They are Christians who follow the theology of Pelagius, a man who lived in the 5th Century and contended with Augustine of Hippo.
  The reason this is important to know is that many Christians today, perhaps unintentionally, are embracing Pelagianism, and bringing harm to the body of Christ. The way this looks in the circles of Christians I know, goes like this; " If you are really saved (are truly a Christian) then you will not sin anymore."It makes sense, only if you believe the teachings of Pelagius, for he did not believe in original sin. He does not believe we are born with sinful natures. Pelagius believed that we are born with the same kind of nature that Adam had when God created him, not the kind of nature Adam received after the fall. This is important to realize because the way Pelagians believe people are saved is by their 'free will' in choosing to come to God. The problem is that first of all, we don't have free will to come to God, and, the sinful nature we inherited from Adam was passed down to all of us, and we are all captives to sin. Pelagians don't believe this, and many Christians today do not believe we are born with sinful hearts.
  So, how does this tie in with our struggle with sin? When a person truly turns away from sin and comes to Christ in repentance and faith, the Bible says that he or she becomes a new creation in Christ. This person now has a new heart, with new desires and also God gives the power and grace to this person to live a holy life. The person who is a new creation in Christ also has, what the Bible calls, 'the flesh' to contend with. The person who has come to Christ now is in a battle against his flesh, the devil, and the desires and pull of the world. He or she will continue to struggle in this battle until the day of his or her death. Then the person is free from struggle. In the next life, after the resurrection, God will give new bodies to men and women, and this struggle against sin will be permanently over.
   There are some 'Christians' who hold openly to the doctrine of Pelagius. But this is dangerous to Christians who are battling against sin and having a hard struggle. Let me give you an example that is very common. Many, many people come to Christ who smoke. These people are addicted to nicotine. They enjoy the habit of smoking, but when they come to Christ, they do want to quit. That is a good desire. They feel guilty for smoking, yet they are powerless to quit. Many go on for years in secret condemnation for fear of what other Christians might think of him or her. Occasionally, some of these people do quit, and others are miraculously delivered from the habit of smoking.
   If these Christians who smoke find themselves around Pelagian believing Christians, they will probably receive condemnation from them. Although I don't think Pelagians actually believe in 'sinless perfection' once a person is saved, they do believe in self-sufficiency when it comes to the area of sanctification. (Sanctification is the process of growing and developing as a Christian. It involves God working His grace in a person's heart who has trusting in the death of Jesus to pay for his or her sins). From what I can tell by my studying Pelagians, they seem to have a works mentality for salvation, i.e. you must stop sinning in order to come to Christ. They also have a surfacy understanding of sin, which involves sin being defined as evil activities like committing adultery or killing someone. They do not see sin as springing out of the heart. Issues like pride and self-centeredness are not addressed in Pelagian theology. So, Pelagians would see Christians who smoke as sinners doomed to hell, because smoking is an outward activity that looks evil, but they do not see the pride that is in their own hearts as sin.
   Many who struggle with sin feel under condemnation simply because the Christians who are around him or her think like Pelagians. What we have to do is go back to what the Bible says. The book of John says that a true believer will not continue in sin. This epistle of John also explains that when a Christian sins, he or she has an Advocate for their sin, who is Jesus Christ. The key with the person who is a Christian who sins is not that he or she doesn't struggle with sin, but, does that person love the Lord and is he or she growing spiritually in the things of God? Struggling with sin (or against sin, rather) is now part of the new Christian's life that wasn't there prior to conversion.
  I know there are many professing believers who are in sin, who truly aren't Christians yet. They are in another category. Sometimes, it is hard to tell the difference between a struggling Christian and a false convert who is using God's grace as an excuse for continuing in sin. But God can make it all clear to us and He can help us to look at our own hearts.
  If you are a Christian who is struggling to please God and wish to be free from your sin struggles, take heart. God is for you. It might take a long time to be free from addictions, habits,, and other things that hold us captive, but God is stronger and is for you. Do not receive condemnation from the Enemy of your soul. Continue to grow in the graces that God has provided you with today. All the other things will take care of themselves in time.
  If you are a Christian who is not struggling against sin, but you are participating willingly in sinful activities, please know that this is not pleasing to the Lord. It brings dishonor to His name and hinders other people from coming to know the True and Living God. Your lifestyle choices will bring bad repercussions in the lives of others. At some time, God will deal with what you are doing, and it could be a very hard situation (I am thinking of a woman who was in the church I was at. She left her husband and went after other men. She dated an ex-convict and was murdered by him).
  If you are a professing Christian, but do not really know the Lord, you need to repent and place your trust in Jesus Christ as your Savior from sin. You might be able to fool people into thinking you are a Christian, as well as deceiving yourself into thinking that you really know the Lord and are safe from His wrath, when you are really under His judgment. You can fool a lot of people, but you will never fool God. You might have a high standing in your church or do a lot of 'good works' in the Christian community, but God knows your real condition. You do not want to be one of those to whom Jesus says 'I never knew you. Depart from me into everlasting fire prepared for the devil and his angels'.
   By the way, if you are still wondering what those two activities are that led me to think about all this, the first is my study of Pelagianism, along with the many things I hear from Christian friends today, and how the two line up with each other. The other is the observation from people who either come to know the Lord and are struggling with things like smoking, or they are reluctant to come to know the Lord because they can't give up smoking, or, they don't have a deep understanding of how God can break chains and deliver us from sin, but in His own timing.
   I hope this article helps some of you reading it. I also hope it will help people to understand that when we come to Christ, the only thing we can bring to the Cross is our sin (C.J. Mahaney). We don't have to clean up our act, in fact, we can't. We don't have to stop sinning, although we do have to turn away from our sins (see the difference?). God cleans us up, gives us the power over sin, and changes us. We turn to Him, trust in Him, and let Him work in us. This is not passive! This is active.
   If you are not in a solid, Bible believing church, or if you do not have a Bible, please contact me and I will see if I can help with that. Please feel free to comment as well. Also, if I have written anything confusing or questionable, please contact me or post a comment. Thanks.